Wednesday, 26 June 2013

Women are like waves

Hello beautiful pple...we are talking about the women today so sit back,relax and grab your reading glasses if u need one.

A woman is like a wave just as men are like rubber bands :) yep quote me if u like...I can say that over and over again
When she feels loved, her self esteem rises and falls in a wave motion,when she is feeling really good,she will reach a peak but then suddenly her mood crashes down. Fortunately, this crash is temporary ;).
When a woman's wave rises, she feels she has an abundance of love to give,but when it falls, she feels her inner-emptiness and needs to be filled up with love. At this down time, she needs to talk about her problems and be heard and most importantly understood.

A woman's self esteem rises and falls like a wave, when she hits bottom,it is time for emotional house-cleaning.
A woman's ability go give and receive love in relationships is generally a reflection of how she is feeling about herself, she tends to be overwhelmed or more emotionally reactive and more vulnerable and needs more love.
It is important that her partner understands her and what she needs at those times
In relationships, men pull back and then get close, while women rise and fall back on their ability to love themselves and others.

What men think.
A man assumes that her sudden change of mood is based solely on his behavior, when she is happy he takes credit but when she is unhappy he also feels responsible, he may feel extremely frustrated because he doesn't know how to make things better.

When a woman moves into her "well", guys please u need to learn that this is when she needs you the most and it is not a problem to be solved or fixed but an opportunity to support her with unconditional love.

Prescription A.K.A what she needs
The last thing a woman needs when she is on her way down is someone telling her why she shouldn't be down, what she needs is someone to be with her as she goes down, to listen to her while she shares her feelings and to empathize with what she is going through.

Brother, even if you can't understand why a woman feels overwhelmed, you can offer your love, attention and support. God bless you for doing that.

Stay tuned for part 2 in the next post...until den stay blessed.

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